---what are the things which shouldnt be glorified but they are ---

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎\color{lilac}{\text{SELF DIAGNOSED}} \color{#ff91cc}{\text{MENTAL ILLNESSES}} ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎╰┈➤ they don't make you special

but the absurd thing about body positivity is that they promote unhealthy lifestyles without rethinking because everyone needs to be included, even the worst lifestyles, but they do not include everyone. what about people that sit in wheelchairs? that are missing limbs? people with bodies that aren't symmetrical? they are not included.

i get that mental illnesses are really fascinating. i feel like people nowadays just really want to be special, doesn't matter if it is positive or negative as long as you stand out with some kind of creepy or fascinating thing — that you probably don't even have.

What is the belief about the existence of past lives and memories? Do we have knowledge of our past lives at birth or does it come back to us gradually?

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‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎the ‎‎\color{lilac}{\text{DARKNESS}} of \color{#ff91cc}{\text{ROMANCE}} ‎‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎╰┈➤ kidnapping, r@pe, manipulating

the same goes for overworking. i notice this especially in my country: if you work less than 50 hours per week, you are automatically less worthy in a conversation than someone who works 60 or more hours per week. they treat you, like you have less experience. and i do find that unacceptable, because the normal amount of work per week should be 30 to 50 hours, that is enough; if you work more than that for a long time, your privat life will soon be completely gone.

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booktok is a wild place, always was. but the sheer amount of people that think a person that threatens or manipulates is hot is insane. and i can't even distance me fully from these people because i'm sure still somewhat part of them. it is a sick mindset and it is dangerous. glorifying woman getting mistreated by some hot guy, people manipulating others like its a cool skill — it is not, it is disgusting.

so what is even the point of body positivity?

i do not know why, but apparently you are really cool if you only slept 3 or 4 hours today. i notice this especially in school. like it is cool to be sick and ill. i assume it is a try to stand out in a way so others worry about you and be interested in your life, but in my opinion, having a healthy life is the coolest thing ever. if you lack sleep you are less productive — even though you have more time. you will feel weak, nervous, angry or scared. lack of sleep can impact your grades, mood, physical and mental health negatively. so it is everything but not something to be proud of if you did not sleep enough last night.

What do most wives fantasize about?

and some people do not even realise anymore, that this is a big problem. we see violence every day and it is changing our brain — we no longer care, because we saw something like this already as dozen times.

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i'm mostly talking about tiktok now. tiktoks usually do not have a warning. a kid just scrolls through the videos and suddenly, before it can react, its confronted with a video of a woman getting beaten up, an extremely violent traffic incident — anything that involves someone getting hurt. uncensored.

don't get me wrong — having a sense of yourself is incredibly important. you need to know who you are, why and who you might want to become. self reflection and self awareness is essential in your life, but i am not talking about these things here. what i'm talking about is the defining of yourself by a few aspects that you chose yourself; your name, your gender, your religion or your sexuality. all these things are important and every person should freely decide what gender, religion, etc they identify with. but these things aren't you. and obsessing over the fact that you are x-sexual isn't healthy. because everyone is far more than that. we should live in a society, where religion, gender or anything like that doesn't decide anything about us more that these very things.

so, first of all: any kind of violence is really bad; mental, domestic, war, etc. it should all be illegal and heavily punished. in the last decades of woman movements we reached a lot in terms of diversity and anti-domestic violence. but within the last years a new mindset developed which somehow made it seem like violence (of any kind) towards men is less worse than violence towards women. and that is bad. if a men beats his wife, it's illegal and if a woman beats her husband, it is just as worse — there is no difference, but according to this mindset there is. maybe this comes from the fact that "woman are just that way" or "men are biological stronger, so it is not that bad"; but it is. violence is violence.

Did you know that we white women prefer Black boyfriends?

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Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support. I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized. he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that. he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened. he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence. i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction. after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly. things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it. we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe … our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far? this has upset me so much its hard to even function.

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎\color{lilac}{\text{HYPER}} \color{#ff91cc}{\text{INDIVIDUALISM}} ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎╰┈➤ the obsession with the self and out identity

‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎\color{lilac}{\text{VIOLENCE}} towards \color{#ff91cc}{\text{MEN}} ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎ ‎‎ ‎ ‎╰┈➤ violence is violence

this topic is already old but apparently there are still many people that do not get that being extremely overweight or underweight is unhealthy. unhealthy, not ugly. every body is beautiful, but not every body is healthy. and that is not an insult, it is simply a fact. to much body fat or not enough body fat can lead to serious illnesses or even early death.

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